Vibrating Knickers

You know when you have one of those flashes of inspiration and you think, “That’s it, that’s perfect, I don’t believe I have just thought of something that nobody has ever made.”? That was me last week! I finally had the idea that would make me a millionairess. Vibrating Knickers! Ideally, wireless Vibrating Knickers, that Alex (or whoever – well, have to keep him on his toes) could control.

The fact that I am here, a week later writing my blog should tell you that I should not have believed as someone had already thought of it and that someone was my best vibe friends, OhMiBod!

The toy they designed first came out a few years ago but has now been relaunched as the Club Vibe 2.Oh!  Maybe a cheesy name but wow, what a product!

The vibrator comes in a two part egg-shaped design, created with comfort and curves in mind as it sits delicately in your underwear and delivers the vibrating knickers! The underwear is free with the vibrator (which was a pleasant surprise) and contains a stitched compartment in the crotch area to fit the vibrator. This is a great alternative for those who are too sensitive for direct stimulation to the clitoris and instead need a little fabric to soften the sensation.

The Club Vibe 2.0h has five levels of manual stimulation and a separate music option. The music option picks up sounds, beats and bass from any musical source and it needs at least two hours of charging before use.

At The Club

Taking my Club Vibe 2.0 on a test drive, I spent the evening dancing away at a local nightspot with loud music and a big crowd. Resulting orgasm took just 10 minutes although I think being surrounded by hot, sweaty men not wearing many clothes might have helped.

At home

The vibrator’s five manual stages all work well, increasing in stimulation and pulsation as you move up and through the levels. The wireless remote is easy to hold and control with one hand. I found using the music at home worked even better than at the club.  Note -  If using the music option, please note the microphone needs to be within a few inches of the speakers when playing music, even when the volume on both devices is set high. The device easily picks up the beat and bass, making the pulsations fun and surprising. It’s a nice alternative to a continuous pulsation!

Vibrating Knickers from OhMiBod

The Club Vibe 2.0h really came into its own when I handed the control to Alex.  Jeez, that man knows how to tease me!  Letting my man take the reigns, I gave up control and he had his wicked way with me. You are only allowed between 5-10 feet between the vibrator and the remote before it has a hard time catching the signal, so stay close! It’s a fun and playful way to mix things up and include your partner in the pleasure.

Love

Jane

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When is she ready?

Calm down! If only it were as simple as that. Imagine, your partner rubs her nose with her right hand, raises her left leg sightly off the floor, looks you in the eye and says “strawberries” and you then knew, in that moment, your girlfriend was ready…………sorry, it’s not like that!

My first and most important piece of advice is to be patient. Now, being a guy, I know how tough this is. The only patience we understand are those found in hospitals so I’m on your side, I know its going to be difficult. A rule you could use, is that, even if you think the time is right, wait for one more hour/day/date before you make your move. It will not hurt and she may even be more willing as they have been made to wait. That’s not to say you should let a golden opportunity slip by. If she dims the lights, walks over to you, stares into your eyes and removes her dress it probably would not be your smartest move to say goodnight and leave. Yes, this does happen in real life but not every night and so for now, just assume she is going to make it a little more difficult to find out when is ready and willing and she is certainly going to expect you to make the first move.

Next advice (and this might hurt), LISTEN TO HER! Women talk and if you listen there will be signs that she is feeling comfortable with you. Is she telling you about her feelings, does she appear to trust you with information that may not be common knowledge? Is she making you laugh (a partner needs to feel easy in your company to try and make things funny)?

What’s the history between you? The longer you have known each other, it’s sometimes more difficult to know if she is ready. This may sound backward but I am sure you have all heard people say, “we are such good friends that sex would ruin it”. Whilst I do not necessarily agree, it does make some sense and if you, as a man, have been a real good friend to a girl, chances are you are highly valued by her. You have to know, there is a chance that she would not risk this friendship if she believes the above might be true and therefore sex is going to be risky.

That’s the preamble but I still haven’t told you how you will know. There is a simple reason why. There is no way, for certain, that you ever will unless you ask. WAIT! Don’t ask her, I am just trying to explain its the only way you will know for sure.

To help you make a good judgement, here are a few of those signs you have been looking for together with some warnings on what else they might mean apart from ‘I want to have sex with you’.
- She looks deep into your eyes when you talk – Weirdly, this might mean she is interested in what you are saying rather than any type of sexual signal.
- She touches you a lot – Don’t flatter yourself, she just maybe extremely tactile.
- She wears sexy clothes in your company – Remember, a plunging neckline does not equate to ‘please take me to bed’.

When is she ready?

Are you getting the idea?
Ok, one more way:-
She dims the lights, walks over to you, stares into your eyes and removes her dress. Takes your head in her hands and whispers into your ear ‘Take me to bed and make love to me’…………..hopefully you now know what to do.
Let me know what you think
Alex

We-Vibe 3

Imaginatively called the We-Vibe 3, it promises to be more powerful, have more vibration patterns, its completely waterproof and most exciting, its remote controlled!

As with the We-Vibe II, the brand new We-Vibe 3 is rechargeable but there is now no need to fiddle around with a small cable as the recharge is administered wirelessly. Yes, simply dock the We-Vibe 3 into its cute little stand and a little while later it’s fully charged and ready to last up to 2 hours of full on buzzing and vibrating.

One thing that has not changed is the shape which is great, bearing in mind it was probably this that won it the Sex Toy of the Year Award last year. The We-Vibe 3 will also be available in the well known purple colour as well as the newer teal and ruby. The new version has a great little storage case which doubles as the charger making it both compact and discreet.

Everyone should be concerned over what goes into their body and the We-Vibe 3 ticks all the boxes being 100% lead-free and made from phthalate-free medical grade silicone. This makes it safe for water-based lubricants and more importantly you.

We-Vibe 3

Alex

Lelo Pleasure in Motion

LELO USA Sales Manager Donna Faro said; “Extraordinary does not do justice to the demand we have experienced for our new SenseMotion™ Insignia™. LELO is the bestselling brand in the world today for our industry, yet our pre-orders this year have broken all records two or three times over. What we’re talking about are the most highly sought-after products the industry has ever seen. We took the decision to delay deliveries by one week to ensure all customers are served as fairly and speedily as possible, which is a tribute to the fantastic level of demand. I’ve never seen anything like it!”

Featuring groundbreaking SenseMotion™ technology and wireless controllers that allow users to control and adjust vibration intensity by tilting or shaking their controller, LELO has introduced entirely unique products. More than this, the controller mirrors the vibrations in the massager to the most amazing effect, allowing users to feel what their partner is experiencing up to a range of 12 meters or 39 feet.

Product Descriptions:

Lelo Lyla

Lelo Tiani

Lelo Oden

MP3 Vibrator from OhMiBod

Since their first MP3 Vibrator hit shelves a few years ago others have started popping up even though few could compete with the original OhMiBod. Actually, after trying that very first MP3 vibrator, I thought it was too cool to ever be topped, but it’s happened! As much as I loved the sweet pulse of my music vibrating away on my clit, I have to say that having the option to take things further and move that vibration to the inside too has made me a new fan all over again. The new insertable OhMiBod is absolutely A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!

It’s the first ever insertable music driven vibrator ever and it can be used manually without an MP3 as well in case you wanna feel the love without the tunes. It’s silky smooth, the perfect size for clit play and penetration, and it comes with a 3 foot long cord so you’re free to move and groove to the vibe of your iPod or MP3 player as your body desires.

Along with the fact that having this sort of gadget is just so very cool, I can really tell you that as a vibrator it hits the mark in that it feels great and is really easy to use whether you’re using it as an MP3 vibrator or a manual vibrator. It’s 7 ½ inches long with 5 ½ of that being insertable, which I consider ideal. It’s only 1 inch in diameter which is why it works so well for some nice focused clitoral stimulation too. And, I’m ever-impressed with the special sexy OhMiBod collection of tunes that you can get on iTunes in the iMix section. It definitely mixes things up right so that you get the most out of your toy!

MP3 Vibrator

Silk Blindfold

You wouldn’t think that a little piece of silk could set the mood for the hottest weekend of your life, but it did just that for me and my partner! The Lelo Intima Silk Blindfold is an exquisite buy and by far the most elegant silk blindfold I’ve seen which is why I couldn’t resist picking it up. It’s black (or purple or red) with a subtle jacquard pattern on one side and a smooth finish on the other. The straps are long so that you can adjust accordingly…or use it in other crafty ways like we did! (More on that below)

I tossed my new silk blindfold into my bag on a whim when we decided on the spur of the moment to head to the cottage for the weekend and then pulled it out when we were partway through the long drive there. I tried it on and inadvertently teased my partner while he drove. All I did was mention how well it blocked my sight and that I could totally see why they say that being blindfolded heightens all of your other senses. Can I tell you that he was very frisky for the rest of the drive? Hello sinful weekend!!

Silk Blindfold

We took turns using it on each other and played a game of how-much-teasing-can-you-take-without-using-your-hands. It was HOT! And, as mentioned briefly before, you can use the silk blindfold for more than just covering the eyes. It was just long enough to use to tie my wrists together—a move that I would never have expected from him and one that I enjoyed like nothing else!
If you’re looking for a little something to add to your repertoire to help spice things up then the Lelo Intima Silk Blindfold should do the trick. It certainly did for me! And, it’s so beautiful and elegantly presented that I believe it would make a great gift as well for either your lover or as a gift for a bride-to-be.
Love
Jane x

G Spot Vibrator

What girl doesn’t want to master the art of G-spot orgasms? Come to think of it, most men probably wish that they could too in order to impress their female partners! If you fall into either of these categories then you’ll really appreciate this G-spot vibrator by Je Joue—the G-Ki.

This G-spot vibrator has got it all as far as great sex toys go: waterproof, adjustable, and made for G-spot AND clitoral stimulation. This easy-to-use toy was made by women and any woman who uses it will know that right away by how well it seems to fit and pleasure your insides just right. It really does seem to be shaped to hit all the right spots…or the one major spot, rather!

I’ve tried so many G-spot toys over the years and have had my share of disappointments, so to find this one was a real treat. The Je Joue G-Ki is pretty much foolproof as far as finding and pleasuring the G-spot goes because it’s adjustable and can be bent to fit you the way you need it too for the ultimate G-spot experience. I was able to “hit the mark” pretty effortlessly and found the vibration ideal for my insides and outsides. As a matter of fact, the smooth rounded tip of the G-Ki is perfect for pleasuring the clit and has served me well during times that I want a clitoral orgasm too and not just some G-spot play. You gotta love a sex toy that does double duty!

G Spot Vibrators in 4 Colours

I would recommend the Je Joue G-spot vibrator to any woman or couple who is looking to experiment with G-spot stimulation because it’s just so easy to use and super effective. This is definitely a favourite that I—and my partner—will get loads of enjoyment from.
love
Jane x

Buy Bondage Gear - Ankle Cuffs

You may have an idea of the sort of person or couple that would be into BDSM and think that it’s so not for you, but just hear me out a little. When you buy bondage gear, you don’t necessarily need to be into full-on BDSM to find something that tickles your fancy. You can buy bondage gear that doesn’t have anything to do with inflicting pain, which is a common misconception. The act of restraining your partner or being restrained yourself doesn’t need to be followed with a whipping or spanking. Actually, one of my favourite things to do is to have my wrists tied and my eyes blindfolded and have my partner assert his dominance by teasing me using his fingertips and his lips while not allowing me to touch him back. It feels incredible and certainly doesn’t hurt!

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Stainless Steel Butt Plug

It used to be that stainless steel sex toys were more for sexual therapy or exercise than pleasure, thankfully that’s no longer the case with toys like the Njoy Pure stainless steel butt plug and others which are all about pleasure.

A stainless steel butt plug provides an experience like no other because not only does is look sleek and sexy, but it’s also made of just about the sturdiest and smoothest material you can find. Using a stainless steel butt plug gives you the comfort of knowing that you’ve got a reliable and safe sex toy that is also super hygienic thanks to its non-porous surface that’s easy to clean and disinfect. The other amazing thing about using a stainless steel sex toy is that it adjusts quickly to your body temperature and can even be heated or cooled if you’re looking to experiment with different and very pleasurable sensations. Just be careful not to overheat it! Ouch!

The Njoy Pure stainless steel butt plug is one toy that you should have in your goodie drawer regardless of whether you’re a man or a woman; an anal play novice or season veteran. It’s available in small, medium and large and can be enjoyed alone or with a partner. And, possibly the greatest thing of all about this type of sex toy: it can be worn all day long for endless pleasure! How’s that for a dirty little secret?!

Stainless Steel Butt Plug

This is one truly erotic treat that anyone, regardless of sex, would be thrilled to receive and try.
Love
Jane x